Keep visiting … after this SoE saga is over, I’ll certainly have some juicy stories and gossips … hehehehe

Women do cheat. Perhaps not at your age (maybe just a little bit for fun) … but most of the cheating happens around the desperate housewives age.

Why?

Because women need two different things

1. Socially, they need security. They need someone to provide house, food and comfort for them to live. The quintessential “nice guy”.

2. Evolution-wise, they need a super-strong mate. They need a man who’s genes are better than hers, so that their kids can survive whatever nature throws at them. The quintessential “jerk aka mr confidence”.

Unfortunately, most men in today’s society broadly fall into one of the two categories (except me and XF lah ).

Which all explains why women are always looking for “mr right” … he has to be charming & sweet enough to fulfill the “i need a nice guy” requirements … while he has to exhibit a little bit of cockiness & confidence to fulfill the “i desire someone naturally attractive” requirements

Most women aern’t lucky enough to find the right combo before marriage … so they end up living with mr nice … and being attracted to (and possibly cheating with) mr jerk.

So, my theory fits in nicely with the “two men” theory you suggested … just a little more scandalous (if read by 35 year old aunties still learning about blogging)

But well. I agree that women have to be more choosy. and choose while they still can. cause (1) age makes them less appealing, and what happens if they have chosen a jerk? (2) yes the 9mths thing.

And then of course also. after women have made their choice, they will stick through it. or at least, they are forced to do so with the babies and stuff.

so all in all, i think women are made for monogamy, and sadly, men are made for polygamy.

Life is so unfair!

Ever wonder why women are more choosy than men (Of course lah, the choosiness doesn’t apply when they have you or me as choices )?

It’s because the risk for them to get involved sexually is much higher (9 months of lost mobility), while the man can happily go around screwing other women.

And even though most women don’t consciously think of the dating game in such terms … their genes have this programmed … so they still act choosy.

In fact, most women cheat on their partners in their most fertile period! It’s because subconsciously, they are looking for a BETTER father for their children … than the lame-dummy-security-husbands they’ve currently chosen

JEEZ … I’m really good at throwing out nonsensical gibbrish … time to go take over Adam and Stuart’s job

Glad that you have found more peace in the deep levels man! All the way for your trueself!