I’ll be sure to screw every … belief that’s not useful

we need to visit you and have a laugh in between our bouts of making big money….

On a hot afternoon visiting in Coleman, Texas, the family is comfortably playing dominoes on a porch, until the father-in-law suggests that they take a trip to Abilene (53 miles away to the north) for dinner. The wife says, “Sounds like a great idea.” The husband, despite having reservations because the drive is long and hot, thinks that his preferences must be out-of-step with the group and says, “Sounds good to me. I just hope your mother wants to go.” The mother-in-law then says, “Of course I want to go. I haven’t been to Abilene in a long time.”

The drive is hot, dusty, and long. When they arrive at the cafeteria, the food is as bad. They arrive back home four hours later, exhausted.

One of them dishonestly says, “It was a great trip, wasn’t it.” The mother-in-law says that, actually, she would rather have stayed home, but went along since the other three were so enthusiastic. The husband says, “I wasn’t delighted to be doing what we were doing. I only went to satisfy the rest of you.” The wife says, “I just went along to keep you happy. I would have had to be crazy to want to go out in the heat like that.” The father-in-law then says that he only suggested it because he thought the others might be bored.

The group sits back, perplexed that they together decided to take a trip which none of them wanted. They each would have preferred to sit comfortably, but did not admit to it when they still had time to enjoy the afternoon.

(from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abilene_paradox)

you see where this is going. what do you think?

Even our Love Doc, Kloudiia didn’t wanna say too much.

On my part, you and the girl in question (I’ll hazard a guess who she is) are 2 of my favourite people around so I’ll send a message to the Collective Consciousness that things will work out well.

Take heart, not just time with each other.

Love a Feeling or a Decision? Is it a Decision you have Feelings about or a Feeling you need to Decide how to deal with?

Look even if you have not much experience in the subect matter doesn’t mean you have not read enough of it…..Ali-G nonwithstanding haha…

No matter how fucked up (that’s the usual position?) One thing remains true despite all the jest (and jazz) about finding each other love interests outside just the 2 of you…. you both share something special and exclusive to just the two of you.

So screw the commitment thing for the time being and learn about each other what makes you people tick. In a very NLP sense of looking at things, committing to no commitment is a commitment itself. So might as well commit to something productive

To the girl in question: When Rachit asks “who’s your daddy!!??”…. just don’t think of me there and then.

good going!

ps: still havent got that book you mentioned you’d email me!

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Eh … Should I respond in public? Or private? Haha … Hmmmmm

I saw the comment from Andrew saying u fucked up … that’s so funny!!
Although, if I’m a 3rd person, I’d think the same way as him

Anyway … to me, that’s exactly the response I expected from u (although I wouldn’t call it a “fuck up”)

And I’m glad u don’t “love” me … and that’s why I’m still with u (and can still do some recruitment for more boys … haha)

For a commitment-phobic like me (and you?), it’s the best this way … don’t u agree?

i have to go format my hard disk now.

i hope you’re happy.

you mean there were other guys too?

who’s this Owen person?

i thought i was the only one.

You owe me a BIG explanation, mister!

you,…..you………you…….dirty…..internet marketer, you!